my gosh. everything will come against you once you level up! from break-ups, parents, jobs, pets bruh everything! but i’m not going to let anything stop me from what i need to do. my content needs to go out, my fans need me and God has given me a purpose and assignment. so i will carry on when everything around me is falling apart. i will get ready and get cute today! if i have to focus on myself this year then it’s all about Lil Joe!! because how is Lil Joe gonna be up, if i’m out and about on the next character!?
my new gimbal came the mobile 8, so im going to set that up now. then tidy up and clean myself up and get dressed! tomorrow, i’ll be able to deep clean my home and yea. i’ll be reset by tomorrow. work all day monday and then I can transition in creating and living the life I want tuesday.
thankfully, my story is not done yet and I must continue acting out my life. Thank God, I am so grateful to be even be alive and Lord please do not let me perish!!
think of what we could do together. come and be wonderful, we will be wonderful!
but yea today is going good! had to work at work but then went home and filmed my tik toks!! clock out and comeback cuz huh?
the manager was all in my building waiting for me this morning… to tell me i got written up for not doing my work?? like what are you talking about. and he said my floors not mopped. the floor the construction workers go in and out through and always because they couldn’t find me on friday? um sir, i was right here. and then asking if i got his text about dusting the shelves?? like did i respond!? so no. you saw me in real life since dec 4th and didn’t say anything. absolutely outrageous.
still dealing with the french restaurant. they turned 3 of my serving shifts into training shifts!!! after i signed up for sunday. i’m going to HR to talk this training plan situation because it is extremely unclear. ongoing. and omggggg they took me off the schedule yesterday and i went there and everything and had to find out i wasn’t on the floor plan ABSOLUTELY OUTRAGEOUS!!!
thankfully, i went home and finished cleaning up and i made more finishing touches today. so I am shocked and amazing and happy and my mind is clear and i need to get in the shower like hello!!!
finishing up with OCC and then we move on to University. gotta finish up as much homework as I can today. put it in the hours that everyone else in my class has put in. It’s been a crazy long ride and I failed this class twice already. So once this new grade replaces the old, we will be ASSOCIATE DEGREE ELIGIBLE! but i must focus today.
love you all and i am balancing homework and still getting fully ready for work today, which mind you I was still training all week SUN, THURS AND SAT!!! NOT I SIGNED OFF ON! well one more class in the fall.
a reflection on quiet integrity, steady work ethic, and why the way someone carries themselves matters more than anything they say.
What is something others do that sparks your admiration?
12/10/25
when others follow the rules and do the right thing when no one is watching. when people are diligent and actually do their job correctly. yesterday, my coworker melissa said, “if i’m going to do the job, i am going to do the job [the right way.]” like yes girl. i admire people who take their jobs or their craft seriously.
i don’t always take my own jobs that seriously because i see myself as a business owner first, but still — if i’m working, i should do it with the utmost respect to the Lord. even when no one is watching, because He is watching. everything.
Early Morning. hey angels. i’m here back at work with my custodian role… i am dropping that identity!!! HELLO! omg, i no-called, no-showed yesterday. like i have no write-ups or anything (i got written up at the french restaurant!?) and i have been late so many times!! i usually show up to work, but being on time is another question, and they said i have the most points of anyone.
like i first heard that we could use our pto to be late, but once you use your illness time, all your other time is at 0!! and it takes 120 hours before it goes back up… so i’ve been doomed. i have 40 hours of anytime pto that i CANNOT USE. vacation time USED UP. ugh. so whatever — i’m leaving january 19th and just hoping that i make it to my holiday vacation!! i’m going to california soon!! I JUST HAVE TO MAKE IT THERE WITH AS MUCH MONEY AS POSSIBLE!!!!
still hosting at the restaurant for now. i need to put my 2 weeks in today or tmrw. i do like that job and my friends, but it’s just not worth not being able to serve on fridays… like i could work mondays tbh, but is it necessary? i need to rest. i have a whole social media career… idk. what do you all think? is it worth one day for $100? standing with your friend? i think yes. but that time could be used for way more for me. so yes, i will have to go, because i did not come to make friends!! i needed a new job for money and i found my dream job!!
i definitely don’t like being a custodian at 5am, and i definitely don’t like that i could be serving instead of hosting or making videos or editing or planning or being at home. me working 3 jobs is on a 9-day timer, and me working 2 jobs is on a 37-day timer!! that is $1800. i will update everyone on how fast i make that at my serving job.
and yes — i got written up. i came in and needed coaching, my manager told me at the end of service. so i’m taking an order and realize my apron is slipping off. i’m readjusting at the host stand, talking to the manager, then run off to put my order in. next thing you know, i’m at the POS without my server book! so i’m running across the restaurant — server station A–C — and cannot find my book. i’m panicking because i completely forgot both tables’ orders AND their drinks.
after 10 minutes, the host finally brings my server book and i’m scrambling to put in the orders. the man wanted captain morgan and i said of course we have that — and we did not. so i just did the house rum and omg he did NOT like that! he said it tasted like jack daniel’s because i guess captain is a spiced rum?? my mistake, and it had already been 10 minutes since they ordered.
finally, with the other table, i’m just looking at the entrees on the back of the page because i didn’t realize they ordered appetizers AND entrees. i saw the man’s soup, but the rest of my order was on the order side of the sheet with like 4 tables’ orders, and i didn’t see it!! from panicking i completely forgot what was going on. her shrimp cocktail and steak tartare… so yea. i missed a course and definitely had to get written up, amongst the other silly things they wanted to coach me for.
they wanted me to walk faster, make sure i do seat numbers for drinks, said i needed direction — which has never happened. because my table walked in and i was trying to help my manager bus the previous table. so look, if i don’t have to bus, SAY LESS THANK YOU UNDERSTOOD!!
and yea, i was giving every table the s&d’s and they said for the table to like me… just on thanksgiving you said USE EM UP! the crème brûlées are $.87 & bubbles $2 — like yes, i’m using up the cheap things so everyone has a good experience. and it was showing in my daily 22% tips!! with only 1 table usually bringing the average down + cash tips!!
anyways, i had to sign off to do a training day and give my shift up, which i did on 12/7, and thankfully i did because ticket times were at 90 minutes. the POS Toast was down FOH & BOH, so servers were writing down orders as well as the BOH. so the general manager just told me to be a food runner, so i was literally chilling. it was a great day and i’ll be back on the floor the 11th and the weekend. i’m so ready.
like i said: i have my dream job. after we had our talk, he said i can be the top server and make tons of money there. that i absolutely am and that i absolutely will do $$$. where i want to be is studying my menu everyday and learning about wine and getting better at my job and practicing being the server i grew up admiring. this is literally my career outside of being famous and a CEO. i have to make money somehow! i don’t want a degree to work for someone else. i don’t want to sit down all day. i don’t want to wake up in the morning lol.
so i have to put my all in and hone my skills and be perfect and fast. not later, not next month, but in a matter of 34 hours. IT’S THE HOLIDAY SEASON. THIS WEEK IS BUSINESS. NEXT IS FAMILY. THE WEEK AFTER, DOWNTOWN DETROIT WILL BE A WONDERLAND! i can do it!!
i present my life to you! soon it won’t be so work-stress-filled, but i am super grateful for all my jobs and everything. wayne state has kept me afloat since i came back from california and blew my money on crypto tbh. so praise God. i just had to be a worker. and now, 20 months and 7 jobs later… i am just about fully settled.
my best friend decided to be a server in oct/nov 2024 and then i went and tried to be a bartender. first job didn’t work, but i did land at p.f. chang’s and ultimately got my bartending job at townhouse. so jan–may ‘25 i was really just training to be the server i am now. i was really good at p.f. chang’s and managed at townhouse with 12 tables — they knew what it was.
i swapped p.f. chang’s for bar pigalle to be a SA at a fine dining restaurant because i didn’t like all the frozen food at p.f. chang’s. so that was ESSENTIAL experience because i had never been around real fine dining, which is what i wanted. i left there because they had 7 covers for the night and i wasn’t making enough hourly for a slow night. left there. fired from bartending after mother’s day. went to the hotel the daxton. the whole staff was leaving so i snuck in and was ACTUALLY bartending! it was so much fun honestly, i loved it.
but i got sick after they told me they didn’t want me to work anymore and moved me to mornings. i had a whole parasite so it worked out, and they eventually let me go — but i probably still have my hotel discount, so aye. and yea, now here i am. at the fine dining french restaurant. selling bottles of wine, which none of those jobs had me doing! thank God, He worked it out for me. now just give me the strength Lord, hello! amen!
LA vacation in 40 days. going to the bakeries, getting my smash burger, egg sandwich, tacos, and burritos for sure… going to roscoe’s finally and langers. hopefully i can go in the ocean!!! i’ll be so happy and my life will be perfect. then i’m going to the desert and hopefully vegas — like HELLO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! please God i want to go to vegas again!!!! going to see my best friends and Godson and my family and my california mom!!! it’s just going to be such a strong start to the year filled with love and surprise and wonder. and i’m going to be filming my show!! coming soon. Son of God premiering March 18th, 2026.
it should be the perfect conclusion of the season i was in for years, and the season i’m in now. i do want it to pass and i do want to walk into the new season with money $$$. which is perfect because our Father in heaven is rich and owns all the money, and the wealth of the wicked is preserved for the righteous.
lol i do need to go back to the gym too. like right now. i will have to update you all later. i love you. new domain hycheblog.com — subscribe for all the latest!
me with one job (and not starting at 5am) is coming SO soon!! praise God! pray i make it through. OH YEA — my house is cleaned up now. deep cleaned, looks amazing. a few nooks and crannies, make the bed, & take out my boxes — BUT IT IS NOT TOO MUCH ANYMORE. i PUT THOSE 10 HOURS IN FOR SURE!! clothes are done and organized for the most part and yea the old energy is gone. a lil bit lingers but once i’m ready to fully push out this baby it’ll all vanish. i must say i am happier than ever. so blessed.
started both my new jobs! almost, technically — but i had orientation for my server job, and i started my hosting job yesterday. everything went really good, actually. it was still challenging and somehow perfect for what i needed for my serving job. i Am definitely trying to stay there, at least until i’m done training to be a server. the name of the game now is to observe, and i am watching. i am thinking.
now that i’m home, i’m going to clean up and film my tik tok’s for today. oh — i ate a real egg and cheese croissant today, from cannelle. it was so real. so happy i did that, because that was honestly the highlight of my day.
moving differently now
not the day i thought it would be, but that’s okay. i Am just going on another level than the people around me, and i don’t have time to stick around anymore. i am fully grown, and i was nice for my whole youth. i lived my life for everyone else. but that is pickle juice. like, if i’m sitting there being handed pickle juice and then drinking it — stop. it’s insanity.
so i am leaving my home soon, just like when i moved to california before, and i’m going to have to stand up and be an adult again. everything is coming together for a reason, and I can’t go back down to that low level. that’s not even reality for me anymore.
everyone can’t come with you
everybody is not gonna come with you. the door is only fit for one. it’s better to be with yourself than in bad company. i’m not going to be stressed out anymore — hateful, vengeful, angry, mean — never, ever. that’s not even me.
i don’t want to cry. i want to move on with my life.
i’ve been nothing but disrespected, but somehow you want to see me as respectful? it’s never going to make sense. and to take advantage of a child is gross as well. i was nothing but a sweet boy, completely different, fully aware. just straight-up neurodivergent, and i was punished for that.
the real tea is that sometimes you were always getting abused for who you are.
i’m back and better than ever! like what my life is on here. i had to live my life in private. in solitude. off-camera. hidden season. because i had to learn myself and get to the root issues. of course, no parent is perfect but chances are they tried their best. and Lord I pray for the childen who have gotten hurt by their parents to heal their hear.
so yes, there’s that. BUT after my bartending jobs and serving. i was just a lil too forgetful. a lil too in the rush. and after all year of having a dirty messy floor. SOMETHING WAS WRONG! it’s like i’m not depressed! i have ADHD! literally.
fully on my medicine now since pretty much the day after I turned 25. and my life is definitely looking up now! i can do so much more and do anything tbh. i used to have trouble doing everything and now, I do what I want! Praise God. I’ve been on Tik Tok everyday the entire time! i’m so happy and proud of myself!! if I can do that, I can update my blog everyday and the vlogs are coming soon too. everything is finally coming and I can handle it. I finally have the capacity.
I have my dream job coming up soon. I honestly can’t believe it, I am so blessed and I just want to send love to everyone because your dreams will come true! I am just getting started at 25 but this is just my 5 years of preparing. I have been patient. I have been healing. I love myself. Jesus Christ is my Lord and Savior. my life can’t get any better honestly! I am grateful.
so early in my career. everything will come in perfect timing for you. I am ready at 25. full of wisdom and still full of youth duh!
Hi angels! y’all need to catch me on the twitch stream @joehyche! my mom got my headphones for me im so happy. I’ve been doing good!! just playing call of duty and Fortnite so far. today I had my wing stop and those wings did not need to be well done smh but they was still super good!! and the parmesan fries are much better than the lemon pepper.
in the real news, I was blessed with a brand new kitty cat!! I was just walking home because I had to get my package and there were two packages. my headphones and a brand new cat!! she was just laying down at my door and waiting so I brought her in. a lil baby and she looks like the cat I was fostering earlier this year that was pregnant! she had to go back home and I believe that they brought me one of the babies. they are identical and she is so sweet and beautiful.
so I’m taking it slow with my baby ny from Michigan and they haven’t hung out yet! but I think they will be ready tomorrow. its been good. she is getting comfortable in her new home and playing with the toys. I’m so happy that ny has a friend we won’t be doing anything without clipping both of their nails!! Ny had gotten hit in the eye by the mama baby and literally had a bruised up black eye. you don’t know want anything to happen to your children!!
It’s Joseph, I’ve been real good y’all. everything has worked out for me here in this foreign town. got my rent paid today, baby ny is good, and going to see my friends today! Praise God. It really is a dream and everything I’ve always wanted. so im so grateful to be here in California and living on my own as the son of God. He will provide for all my needs is my testimony and He establish you.
Thank you Jesus. It’s been almost a year since I’ve been here and I haven’t done nothing! At least externally, just working and paying the bills. I did go to many many new places this year like LA, Malibu, Las Vegas, San Diego and Puerto Rico! So it was definitely an incredible year and I got to visit home twice so really everything worked out. I’ve had to just do the external work for the now and know that I’ve been transformed through Christ, I can start fulfilling my purpose. 23 should be the year that changed it all and launched everything in Jesus name!!
hi angels. I have literally arrived to California and it’s been great! I live in the desert in a small small town 3 hours out from LA.. my airbnb is so nice and my cat Ny is here. it’s been a joy depending on God to get everything settled, and it has. I had my interview for panda express and that will be my 4th job LOL. i’m so excited. it was a good week, truly blessed. finished my last interview so that is a complete relief. starting my two new jobs next week and things will all be very clear.
focused on my fitness and cooking. being connected with my loved ones and being with The Lord. i’ve made friends! I was working at Marshall’s so I have my work friends and I’ve met some brothers and sisters at the prayer house. everything has been perfect!! very grateful and I am truly living the dream and I’ve got work to do!! a lot of people would love be moving to California and it’s been my dream!! I am here!! you can be here!! it’s affordable places in California!! “My people will live in peaceful dwelling places, in secure homes, in undisturbed places of rest.” – Isaiah 32:18 Our Father will provide you a peaceful dwelling place!! Thank you God. I love you.
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